Help finding legal forms you need

Ending things with your better (or worse) half requires a lot more effort than beginning the relationship. Once you decide to divorce or separate, the paperwork pile turns into a mountain. One of the first hurdles self-represented individuals face is simply trying to find the forms and documents that must be completed and filed. Without those, pleading your court case is very difficult.

Luckily, there are several options to explore, whether you are representing yourself or have an attorney. The State Court Administrator’s Office (SCAO) has a plethora of forms online and available for free at https://www.courts.michigan.gov/SCAO-forms/. These forms are regularly updated so it’s best to check that your form is the most recent version. SCAO has forms for a multitude of legal areas, not just family law, and are used frequently by the court and litigants.

 

Another popular option is Michigan Legal Help’s website, https://michiganlegalhelp.org, which provides step-by-step instructions on a variety of legal issues, including family law, criminal, employment, housing and others. In addition to forms, Michigan Legal Help has articles and helpful links to clinics and other resources. You can fill out and print a “do it yourself” divorce by simply answering the questions and inputting your data. By using this tool, you’re not just handed a blank judgment and instead the site prints a completed document based on your information. While the forms are free, you can make an optional donation.

 

Some courts provide DIY divorce kits with the forms necessary to handle your divorce start to finish but the cost for these kits vary and not all counties provide them. The Legal Resource Center, or LRC, run by Eastern Michigan University’s paralegal program, operates out of the Washtenaw County courthouse and provides assistance in the areas of probate and family law, housing disputes and small claims issues. While the LRC can’t provide legal advice, it provides help with accessing and completing forms. As it is run in conjunction with the university, be sure to check the hours of operation as it follows the academic calendar. There may also be a cost related to printing fees.

 

The Friend of the Court (FOC) carries a variety of free forms as it relates to family law cases. Some are available on your county’s FOC website, or you can request that they be mailed or emailed to you.

 

While this article is not exhaustive of the resources available to litigants and attorneys, it’s a solid start to pleading your case.

Proposed PPO law aids with service issues

When a personal protection order (PPO) is granted in Michigan, it is supposed to give the petitioner assurance that the perpetrator will abide by the court order restricting contact with the petitioner. Once the PPO is granted, it must be served upon the respondent so he or she knows that the PPO exists and what the restrictions are.

However, police officers charge a service fee and mileage to serve the respondent with the PPO, and private process servers can cost considerably more. The exact cost can vary depending on which department provides the service, and coming up with the money can be difficult for the petitioner, ultimately delaying service. Most PPOs involve some form of domestic violence, a significantly underreported crime. Forms of control from the perpetrator include financial, leaving the victim little to no access to money.

 

Michigan Senate Bills 611 and 612 have been approved by the Senate and would provide service of the PPO within 72 hours at no charge to the petitioner. The PPO would designate a law enforcement agency located within the respondent’s jurisdiction as responsible for serving the order on the respondent. However, the petitioner could use another police agency or competent adult (not a party) to serve the respondent, if desired. The costs associated with law enforcement serving the PPO would come from the Personal Protection Order Service Fund, which has already secured $1 million as part of the 2026 state budget.

 

The tragic death of Latricia Green, who was killed in August 2025 by her ex-husband, stresses the importance of this legislation. While she had a PPO against him, it had not been served at the time of her death. Forty-three states already provide free service of PPOs, leaving Michigan in a very small minority.  This legislation recognizes that money should not dictate a person’s safety.

Judicial Protection Act will provide more safeguards for judges

Judges have incredibly demanding jobs, even if they did ask for the job by running for election or appointment. That difficulty is compounded by safety concerns for the bench and their families. Local courthouses prepare as best they can with extra security for high-profile cases, potentially dangerous individuals appearing in person, and if necessary, escorts to and from work and home. 

Michigan’s Senate Bill 82 (2025), or the “Judicial Protection Act,” aims to mitigate some of the safety concerns by limiting public disclosure of personal information about judges and their family. Immediate family members are those who share a permanent residence with the judge, including spouses, children, parents and any other familial relative of the judge. 

Personal identifying information, or PII, has a lengthy list of what is included: birth date, permanent residence address (except for city and township), address of other property regularly used as a dwelling, phone numbers, driver’s license or state ID number, Social Security number, personal email, tax IDs, credit, debit card and bank account information, license plate or other unique identifier of a vehicle, school or daycare information, including schedules and routes taken to and from the location, and employment location other than the court house.

Judges can submit a request in writing to remove a public posting or PII displayed about the judge or her immediate family. The request to remove the details would remain in effect until the judge provides a written request to lift or modify the original ask. Once the request has been made, any current public displays of this information are to be removed no later than five business days after the request was received. If compliance is not had, the judge or her family member can commence a civil action to compel the compliance. 

Any PII on the written request is also exempt from disclosure under the Freedom of Information Act. Public availability of the PII elsewhere is not a defense to violating the terms of the Judicial Protection Act.

Exceptions to the proposed act include if the information is relevant and contained within a news report, editorial or other speech “on a matter of public concern;” if the PII is needed to effectuate the judge’s request, voluntary disclosure, internal use for businesses, health and safety purposes, credit reporting, and the list goes on (really, it does – it spans from subsection a through o). 

Given past violence directed at judges and their families, this act is long overdue. The Judicial Protection Act will allow members of the bench to better perform their duties knowing there is an extra layer of safety around those they love.

Beware of inconsistencies in orders

When you’re going through a divorce or custody battle, you want to ensure that everything is buttoned up and clearly worded with no inconsistencies. This can prove difficult when you have to draft the many documents required – mandated forms, settlement agreements, support calculations, and of course the judgment itself. Don’t forget the notice of hearing, proofs of service and throw in a Friend of the Court approval to boot.

So what happens if something written in one document doesn’t match what is provided for in another? If it concerns support, Michigan Court Rule (MCR) 3.211 has the answer for you. In a divorce with minor children, child support must be addressed, even if the monthly support amount is zero. The State Court Administrator’s Office (SCAO) mandates the use of Uniform Support Orders (USOs), which are broken down into two types: Uniform Child Support Orders, or UCSOs, for child support, and Uniform Spousal Support Orders (USSOs) if spousal support is ordered. Both documents must tag along and be entered with the judgment or order.

You would think a quick copy and paste would eliminate any inconsistencies between the order and USO, right? Wrong. The USOs are forms which are vastly different from judgments, with fun boxes to check and grids to fill in carefully with the correct numbers from support guideline printouts. If you mix up the parties or confuse the variety of terms used (plaintiff, defendant, payer, support recipient), things can go downhill quickly.

MCR 3.211 provides that the “Uniform Support Order shall govern if the terms of the judgment or order conflict with the Uniform Support Order.” That means that what is written on the entered USO trumps. If your judgment says dad pays mom $500 a month in child support, but you reverse the names in the UCSO boxes and list mom as the payer and dad as the payee, mom’s paycheck is going to be missing $500 per month, which can have significant financial impact until it is corrected.

When it comes to spousal support, one important detail to ensure is correct on all documents is modifiability. If the judgment provides for spousal support to be non-modifiable and terminate after 5 years, but that is not mentioned on the USSO, nor does it incorporate/merge the judgment’s terms, guess what – spousal support is modifiable because the USO trumps.

USOs are updated on a fairly regular basis, and the court will only accept the most updated forms for entry, so if you haven’t done a divorce in a while, be certain to check that you are using the current form and that the terms of the order and USO match. When it comes to entered orders, you don’t want to hear the court start singing, “one of these things is not like the other."

Providing a helping hand to litigants

If I had a dime for every occasion I’ve been asked to provide legal advice to litigants representing themselves (pro per or pro se), well you know how the saying goes. Judges face the same difficulty as most pro pers don’t have anywhere near the level of legal knowledge necessary to represent themselves effectively. A lack of understanding of the law, court rules and procedures often lead to frustration and resentment toward the judicial system.

Canon 3(A)(4) has been added to the Michigan Code of Judicial Conduct to assist judges in ensuring pro pers are fairly heard in court. Effective September 1, 2025, Canon 3(A)(4) provides that “judges may make reasonable efforts that help self-represented litigants to understand the proceedings and applicable procedural requirements, secure legal assistance, and be heard according to law.” Judges must be careful to not appear biased or provide one side with an unfair advantage, as many self-represented litigants already have a jaded opinion about the court (especially in family law cases).

 

The new Canon provides examples of what “reasonable efforts” may include and makes clear that the list is not exhaustive. The court can explain the proceedings, ask neutral questions to gather or clarify information, alter the usual way evidence is taken and “[c]onstrue pleadings to facilitate consideration of the issues raised.” Judges are also able to detail next steps in the case and what parties are expected to do, as well as refer them to resources that could help them prepare, enforce or comply with orders.

 

Many judges already hold more relaxed proceedings to accommodate pro pers, and courthouses have information and forms readily available for those navigating without an attorney. That being said, some judges may not feel comfortable doing so, which is why this new Canon is so important. Giving judges permission to recognize and help mitigate the difficulty many have in self-representation will hopefully pave the way for a more amicable relationship between parties and courts.

Intentional community testing discrimination laws

Just when you thought things couldn’t get crazier, Arkansas enters the picture. A 160-acre community in the rural and remote Ozarks – named “Return to the Land” or RTTL – is opening its doors to residents, if they meet the specific criteria of being straight, white and non-Jewish. 

Cofounders Eric Orwoll and Peter Csere purchased the property in 2023, and members can buy shares that provide them with acres of land in the community. RTTL is trying to circumvent anti-discrimination laws by labeling itself a private membership association, albeit a bigoted one. RTTL’s website states that its membership is for “individuals and families with traditional views and common continental ancestry,” and the return to the land is to “separate ourselves from a failing modern society.”

Is the group taking advantage of the DEI rollback to see how far they can stretch exemptions to the Fair Housing Act and anti-discrimination laws? Probably. The legal disclaimer on the website specifically states that RTTL does not engage in real estate sales or rentals, and six communities are currently listed as either formed or in the planning stages of development. Orwoll says that RTTL’s purpose is to control who their neighbors are, and preserve white, American culture. In his opinion, America was white when his ancestors arrived, and members don’t want their white identity taken away. I’m guessing he didn’t learn about Native Americans and indigenous people in school.

Watching online interviews of members was mind boggling, with one stating that he didn’t know if the term racism applied to him, but he didn’t care. Others see RTTL as a loving movement, justifying their behavior by saying other ethnic groups can choose to do the same. In their view, exclusion brings purity, which could explain the monies paid out to members who have newborns. You don’t have to live on the compound to be a member, which helps with the group’s expansion efforts.

I am anxiously awaiting the first legal challenge to RTTL as nothing has surfaced yet, and how high it will climb in the legal system. Arkansas’ Attorney General recently claimed that he didn’t believe it violated any state or federal laws, which only bolsters the members’ belief that their behavior is acceptable. It’s unlikely that we will ever see any “hate has no home here” signs in the RTTL community. 

School's almost in session

Is anyone else surprised that school supplies start finding their way into stores earlier and earlier each summer? It’s downright depressing when we still have plenty of sunny days and swimming to do before the bell rings. Issues revolving around education can bring conflict and stress to co-parents who must navigate teachers, homework, grades and extracurriculars. 

If parties share joint legal custody of their kiddos, they have an equal say in medical decisions, education (including where they attend school or childcare) and what extracurricular activities they participate in. If parents can’t agree, a motion needs to be filed for the court to decide the issue, preferably well in advance of the new school year. Unless an order prohibits it, both parents can attend games, go to parent-teacher conferences and participate in all the fun homework assignments we find out about at 7 pm the night before they are due.

In cases where one parent is awarded sole legal custody, the decision making is left to that parent alone. If the other party doesn’t agree to that school or activity, they are stuck with it until and unless the court modifies the legal custody award to joint. The parent without legal custody may be concerned about the right to obtain information about the child’s education or health care decisions. Michigan law directly addresses this in MCL 722.30:

Notwithstanding any other provision of law, a parent shall not be denied access to records or information concerning his or her child because the parent is not the child's custodial parent, unless the parent is prohibited from having access to the records or information by a protective order. As used in this section, "records or information" includes, but is not limited to, medical, dental, and school records, day care provider's records, and notification of meetings regarding the child's education.

This law helps eliminate conflict between parents who lack effective communication skills, as it allows both parties to obtain records and information without having to ask the other parent. A parent without joint legal custody can still receive current information on how the kids are doing and address it with the other parent or the court if necessary. This is an important and necessary law as it emphasizes the importance of both parents being involved in the children’s lives and information being shared with both parents. 

As the law states, it does have exceptions for those with protective orders prohibiting information from being released. Personal protection orders can include this prohibition if the court believes the safety of the petitioner and/or child could be at risk.

Regardless of the custody award, it’s important for every parent to be aware they have a legal right to learn how their child is doing physically and educationally – after all, knowledge is power.